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Everydaywehearabouteolemakingradicalcareerchanges。Theoortunitiesexist,butwillallthesechangesmakeusanyhaieroncewegetthere?Maybethequestionisnot
"HowcanIgetthejobIlllove?
",but
"HowcanIlovethejobIhave?
"Followingarefourracticalstestowardscomingtotermswithwhyyoudowhatyouredoing。Takesometimetothinkaboutit,andyoumightbesurrisedbywhatyoufind。
1。Realizethatyourjobdoesnotdefineyou,buthowyoudoitdoes。Theresalottobesaidforattitude,morethanwillfithere。Anyjobcanbedonewell,donewithcomassion,donewithcare。Yourattitudeatworkandthewayyoutreateole—evenyourmood—doesnotgounnoticed。Theyhavearofoundinfluenceontheeoleyouworkwith。Therearetimeswhenyoucantcontrolyoursituation,butyoucanalwayschoosehowyouliveinit。
2。Stofocusingonthemoney。Moneywillneverbeenoughsostousingit(orthelackofit)asanexcuse。Whateveryouarebringinghomeonthe15thand30th,therearealwaysgoingtobethingsyoucoulddoorwoulddoifyouhadmore。Trytakingtrackingeveryennyyousendinaweek。Seeingwhereyourmoneyisreallygoingcanhelyoutorefocusyoursendingtowardsthethingsyoureallywant。Gettingaidisonlyonesmallartofwhatyoudo,yourworkhastobemorethanjustaaychecktobefulfilling。
3。Findthesignificanceinwhatyoudo。Thismayrequireyoutothinkbig,butitcanbedone。Takesometimetoreallythinkaboutwhatyoudo。Doyourovideanessentialservice?Doyougettoseethefinishedroduct?Doyougivedirectionthatgetsthingsdone?Thenaskyourself
"howisthisjobdonedifferentlybecauseIamdoingit?
"Persectivelaysahugeroleinersonalsatisfactionandsenseofwellbeing。Trytorememberwhyyoutookthejobinthefirstlace。Ifitwasonlygoingtobe
"fornow
"areyouactivelylookingforotherwork?
4。Daretoaskyourselfifitsworthit。Ifyoucantfindtheartofyourjobthatyoulike,orifyoucanseeyourselfturningintotheersonyousaidyouwouldneverbe,considerthereasons。Itmaynotbeanewjobthatyouneed,justanewdirection。Doyouliketheersonyouaredoingthisjob?Ifnot,aretherechangesyoucanmaketothewayyoudoyourjoboristhejobitselftheroblem?Doyouneedtobedoingadifferentositionwithinthesamecomany?Areadditionalresonsibilitiestakingyouawayfromtheworkyouwerehiredtodo?Maybeallthatsneededissomerefocusing。Learntosay
"no
"。Asmuchasyoucanchoosethethingsyousendyourtimeon,dontattendeventsormeetingsonlybecauseeveryoneexectsit。
Askingyourselfwhyyoudoyourjobdoesntmeanyouredissatisfied,justself-aware。Thisawarenesscanleadtogreaterjobsatisfaction,increasedsenseofwellbeingandalittlemorecontroloverwhatyoudo,ratherthanjust
"goingalongfortheride
"。Forsome,itmaybetimeforachange—ifso,dontbeafraidofit。Changeisntnecessarilybad,itsjustdifferent。Fortherestofus,takealookaround,youmayfindyouvegotagreatview。
Takealookatyourlife。Howwouldyoudescribeit?Contented?Rushed?Exciting?Stressful?Movingforward?Holdingback?Formanyofusitsalloftheaboveattimes。Therearethingswedreamofdoingoneday,therearethingswewishwecouldforget。IntheBible,itsaysthatJesuscametomakeallthingsnew。Whatwouldyourlifelooklikeifyoucouldstartoverwithacleanslate?
我们每天都会听到“跳槽”这个词。尽管你有这样的机会,但是一旦所有的改变都实现了,真的会使我们快乐吗?或许问题不在于“我们如何能找到喜欢的工作”,而在于“我们如何爱上目前的工作”。采取下面四个实用的步骤,来确定自己做现在这份工作的原因,花些时间想一想,你就会有惊奇的发现。
1。要认识到:定义你的不是你的工作,而是你的工作方式。在这里,更多的话题应该说是针对态度,而不是意愿。任何工作只要能做好,就要开心、认真地去做。你的工作态度和为人处世的方式,甚至是你的心情,都不会被人忽视。这些都会给你的同事带来深刻的影响。你往往不能控制你的处境,但你可以选择如何去适应。
2。不再关注钱。钱永远都不够多,所以不要再用钱(或是缺钱)当做借口。不管每月的15号和30号你带回家的是多少钱,你都会想得到更多的钱,做更多的事情。只要你的钱更多,你想做、能做的事情就越多。试着记下你每周花的每一分钱。看看你的钱到底花在了哪里,这样可以帮助你审视是否确实把钱花在了你想要的东西上。得到报酬只是你工作的一小部分,工作完成的意义远远超过了一张薪水支票。