k生活中,我们最幸福的时刻InLife,WeAretheHaiestWhen…
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Amanandhisgirlfriendweremarried。Itwasalargecelebration。
Alloftheirfriendsandfamilycametoseethelovelyceremonyandtoartakeofthefestivitiesandcelebrations。Allhadwonderfultime。
Thebridewasgorgeousinherwhiteweddinggownandthegroomwasverydashinginhisblacktuxedo。Everyonecouldtellthatthelovetheyhadforeachotherwastrue。
Afewmonthslater,thewifecametothehusbandwitharoosal,“Ireadinamagazine,awhileago,abouthowwecanstrengthenourmarriage,”sheoffered,“Eachofuswillwritealistofthethingsthatwefindabitannoyingwiththeothererson。Then,wecantalkabouthowwecanfixthemtogetherandmakeourliveshaiertogether。”
Thehusbandagreed。Soeachofthemwenttoasearateroominthehouseandthoughtofthethingsthatannoyedthemabouttheother。Theythoughtaboutthisquestionfortherestofthedayandwrotedownwhattheycameuwith。
Thenextmorning,atthebreakfasttable,theydecidedthattheywouldgoovertheirlists。
“Illstart,”offeredthewife。Shetookoutherlist。Ithadmanyitemsonit。Enoughtofill3ages,infact。Asshestartedreadingthelistofthelittleannoyances,shenoticedthattearswerestartingtoaearinherhusbandseyes。
“Whatswrong?”sheasked。“Nothing,”thehusbandrelied,“keereadingyourlist。”
Thewifecontinuedtoreaduntilshehadreadallthreeagestoherhusband。Sheneatlylacedherlistonthetableandfoldedherhandsoverthetoofit。
“Now,youreadyourlistandthenwelltalkaboutthethingsonbothofourlists。”Shesaidhaily。
Quietlythehusbandstated,“Idonthaveanythingonmylist。Ithinkthatyouareerfectthewaythatyouare。Idontwantyoutochangeanythingforme。YouarelovelyandwonderfulandIwouldntwanttotryandchangeanythingaboutyou。”
Thewife,touchedbyhishonestyandthedethofhisloveforherandhisaccetanceofher,turnedherheadandwet。
Inlife,thereareenoughtimeswhenwearedisaointed,deressedandannoyed。Wedontreallyhavetogolookingforthem。Wehaveawonderfulworldthatisfullofbeauty,lightandromise。Whywastetimeinthisworldlookingforthebad,disaointingorannoyingwhenwecanlookaroundus,andseethewondrousthingsbeforeus?
一个男人与他的女朋友举行了一场盛大的结婚典礼。
所有的亲朋好友都来参加,分享他们的喜悦,对他们表示祝贺,大家都很愉快。
身着雪白婚纱的新娘楚楚动人,穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。大家看得出来,他们彼此相爱。
婚后数月,妻子提议:“我刚在杂志上看到一篇文章,讲的是如何增进夫妻感情。我们各自在纸上罗列出对方的小缺点,然后一起讨论如何解决的办法,会使我们的婚姻生活更融洽。”
丈夫很赞成。于是,他们分头找了个房间,想对方的缺点。那天余下的时间,他们都在想这个问题,同时也把所想的写了下来。
第二天早上,吃早餐时,他们决定谈谈彼此的缺点。
“我先来吧。”妻子说。她拿出单子,上面都写满了,足有三页纸。开始念纸上写的丈夫的小毛病时,她注意到他的眼角湿润了。
“怎么了?”她问道。“没什么,”丈夫答道,“继续念啊。”
妻子接着念,念完以后,她把单子整齐地放在桌上,两手交叉放在上面。
“现在,该你了。你念完后,我们就来谈谈这些缺点吧。”妻子开心地说道。
丈夫平静地说:“我什么也没写,我觉得你这样已经很完美了,不用为我改变。你很可爱,也很迷人,我不想改变你的任何事情。”